Tuesday, 14 March 2023

Message from Terri and Robert Peters ...

 Hello Andrew.

 We appreciate the way you keep us informed of our colleagues’ successes and trials over the last 45 years. And now I will make the effort to put out there what is happening with the Peters.

 Being bike riders ourselves we were very much affected by Mark's death and we have been looking inwards a little trying to do that impossible task of balancing risk in our life.

 We have 13 grandchildren aged 14yrs down to 15 months who all live within a 30 min drive from us and thus are frequent house guests. I guess busy parents turn into busy grandparents  while our own children get themselves established ...Having said that, some things  are not negotiable  so our Opera subscription as well as SSO and Aussie Ballet  performances make us totally unavailable to the kids  at least once a month. The 2 hour trip from East Maitland to the Opera House is a regular Saturday getaway.

 We sold our East Maitland General Practice to a new Dr about 6 years ago and Bob retired from practice about 5 years ago. I am still working 2 days a week in the same “our” practice.  The new practice owners are very good to me and offered me the world almost not to retire a few months ago when I was planning to. So I'm still there and still quietly still enjoying Primary Care. I do feel like a dinosaur though.  The next generation practices differently, some aspects good, some in my opinion not so good but change is part of life. I must admit having seen the practice go through accreditation again last week,  I'm glad I'm not a principal any more and have to run the business, computers, employment ..  I'm sure things are more difficult these days.

 We are blessed with good health so far.  I recently had a small thyroid cancer dealt with and Bob had a bike accident 6 years ago fracturing 6 ribs in 8 places, small pneumothorax, fractured clavicle and amnesia for the event. It was unwitnessed as I was ahead but he probably lost traction on a slightly wet roundabout trying to catch up with me... yes it was all my fault but he made a full recovery and was back on the same roundabout 12 months later on the anniversary of the accident  yelling out "take that you b....!"  Hence our grief on hearing about Mark's accident. There seems to be such a fine line between life and death at times.

 Of medical interest is one of our grandaughters who was born with the rare Trisomy 9 mosaic genetic disorder. Yes, quite rare, associated with global developmental delay and because of mosaicism she has a completely unpredictable future as no 2 kids will be similar.. From the family point of view it is  proving to be a priceless journey for all her cousins to grow up around a disabled child and ultimately adult. At 6 years of age we are grateful she started to walk 12 months ago and that she is very social and gets great pleasure  from being with other children. She has a great laugh which we hear often  but she is still non verbal but has a range of unofficial signing gestures. My first hand experience with NDIS as grandma has been extremely positive though it did take my patient with Myotonic dystrophy 2 years and a visit to the local member to get the same service from NDIS.!

 Here is a photo of the aging Peters at the airfield at Birdsville, Qld - ready for charter over Channel Country. Bob also spends a lot of his retirement with the Maitland Musical Society Orchestra playing the violin which he started learning at 40 and more recently the ‘cello .

 With kind regards

Terri and Robert Peters